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How Does Writing Fit?

While perusing my “Blogs I Follow” page, I landed upon the following quote by Suddenly Jamie, and it hit home.

“I find myself wanting to better understand how this writing thing fits into my life.”

That’s exactly what I’ve been doing lately. Smooshed under the layers of work, stress, being too tired from dealing with precious sixth graders all day, trying to keep up with housework (or at least, thinking about it), and plugging through all the chores of life, this thought has been there. Nagging, poking, scratching like a June bug on the window screen of my soul. It’s been annoying me that I “have no time” to write and keep up my blogs. I have no real opportunities to apply myself to writing because all of the necessities of life are getting in the way. I have to do all the things that help me bring home a paycheck, as minuscule as it is. I don’t have a choice. If only I were married to a guy who made enough money that would allow me to be at home, or at a Starbucks or Panera for hours a day, musing, writing, editing my next masterpiece. I guess another way to put that is, “I need a sugar daddy!”

Yeah. That’s what I need. But, that’s not what I’m going to get.

So, how does my writing fit into my life?

Well, as I say to my students, “You need to learn to take responsibility for your actions.” The same stands true for your NON-action. I must take my own advice. I must take responsibility and require myself to write consistently, regardless of all the other distractions. I need to be free from the relentless hounding that I’m not fulfilling all of who I am if I’m not writing. I need the personal satisfaction that what I’m writing matters. If not to anyone else, though I hope some of it does, then to me. It matters. And we make time for the things and people who matter, right? So, it’s time to put on my big girl pants (another mantra that I frequently share with my students) and get on with it, already! Write! Make it happen!

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2 thoughts on “How Does Writing Fit?

  1. Suddenly Jamie (@suddenlyjamie) on said:

    Thanks for sharing my quote & post, and for being so honest about your feelings. I’ve wish for an “easier” life myself now and again, but I don’t think that would ultimately make the difference for me or for anyone. As you say, we make time for what we care about most. In other words, where there is a will, there is a way. Setting up house on Easy Street might seem like the answer, but I doubt it often turns out that way. Better to find your own way of carving out the time you need, no matter what. That’s a much stronger foundation. 😉 Good luck!

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    • You’re welcome! Thanks for the inspiration and for commenting! Yeah, the “easy” way doesn’t build strength and character. I know this is true. I try to teach it to my students and get frustrated when they don’t want to listen. But, sometimes I’m just as stubborn as they are. 🙂

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